
Good enough IS good enough.
Housework done incorrectly still blesses your family.
These two mantras, courtesy of FlyLady, are two that I often repeat to myself, especially the second one.
I found FlyLady back when she was still a “baby” on the internet, 2001. I never thought of myself as a perfectionist. If you looked around my room as a teenager, my house as a new wife you’d see clutter, a mess. I often spent too much time looking for a lost item or trying to organize clutter. While I rarely ran late to appointments, school work was often done at the last minute. Not because I had forgotten about it (usually) but I work well under pressure. Any of that is hardly what I would have ever called a perfectionist.
Enter FlyLady. I quickly realized I was…a FAILED perfectionist. Because I knew I couldn’t achieve perfection, I just didn’t try. Now, that doesn’t explain away everything about the way I function. It did, though, give me some insight into my own behaviors.
Training myself that it IS okay if I wipe just the parts of the counters you can see and not move everything first or sweeping only part of the kitchen. Its been hard. But, oh what a blessing! To myself (freedom) and to my family.
So what does that have to do with the Spring Cleaning Challenge? My list. Go read it. I also added several things that aren’t on there. It started out as four typed pages. FOUR. To accomplish in two weeks. While I’m homeschooling, solo parenting for almost a week plus all those other life commitments that come up. Perfectionism, anyone?
I had a mini-panic attack this morning wondering how I would get it all done. Know what? Christine isn’t going to come check to make sure my list is completed by Saturday. And no one is going to go around inspecting my house to ensure each item is perfect. If I decide to take a few items off the list, no one is going to reprimand me. Whatever I do and however I do it STILL blesses my family. I don’t have to finish my list and I don’t have to do each item perfectly. Good enough is good enough.
If your dishes aren’t rinsed before putting them in the dishwasher or all your kids’ clothes aren’t perfectly ironed (or ironed at all!) or if you didn’t move the couch when you were vacuuming, its okay. Good enough is good enough. You are still blessing your family. Really.
I’m joining iDreamofClean and 9 other bloggers in the Spring Cleaning Challenge for a chance to win some incredible prizes!